Lady Who Moved to UK after Marrying White Man Shares How Her Marriage Ended, Story Breaks Hearts

• A lady who was in an interracial marriage has narrated how the union crashed months after she joined her ex-hubby in the United Kingdom
• According to the 34-year-old divorcee, she initially thought that she had married her soulmate, but saw a different side of her ex-husband after they began living in the UK
• Two months after moving to the UK, she claimed he punched her in the face several times, and things went south from that point

A Black lady who married a Caucasian has opened up on TikTok about how her marriage ended after she moved to the UK to be with her ex-husband.

Two months after she relocated to the UK, she said her ex-husband punched her several times in the face. She thought she would die.

How interracial marriage crashed in months

According to the divorcee, 34, her ex-husband called her unprintable names, including tagging her a Nigerian scammer.

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She noted that she tried her best to make the marriage work and even apologised when she wasn't in the wrong, but all these were like fetching water with a basket. In her words:

"When I thought I married my soulmate.

"Moved to the UK because of him.

"Two months after moving here, he punched me several times on my face, I thought I was gonna die.

"Names like bit.ch, fuc.king animal, fat, Nigerian scammer became my new name.

"Heaven knows I am not a nagging woman, I tried my best to make it work. Apologies even if it wasn't my fault..."

She disclosed that she never met his family, despite that he met all her family members.

She further said he continued to insult her and would slap her months later, at a time she grieved over the death of her father.

The lady said she had to move out at that point, and her ex filed for divorce two weeks after she left.

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The concluding part of her narration read:

"He met all my family but I never met his family

"Telling me my hands look like a monkey.

"I'm too dark, his children are smarter than me and I'm so dumb with no brain, was the new anthem in the house.

"Slapped me again after few months. And I lost my dad during this period, still grieving.

"I lost myself. Had to move out and he filed for divorce after two weeks of me moving out.

"I made the best decision, I'm more happier and better now.

"Physical, emotional, psychological, any type of abuse is non negotiable for me. I will never live with an abusive partner.

"34, no kids and divorced. I will build again from the scratch."

Read her story in the TikTok slides below:

Lady's crashed marriage story stirs reactions

Legit.ng has compiled some reactions to the story below:

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joymab5 said:

"I once read a comment from a white woman who said that white men marrying African women is a red flag because the majority of them are looking for someone to control. I'm not sure how true that statement was, but it caught my attention."

Kristin said:

"It's not necessarily racism. It's pure evil, sadistic and he knew how exactly to destroy you... 😢

"I'm so sorry you had to experience this, glad you got out. I'm praying for you, find a way to first love yourself and hopefully one day soon you will love someone new again."

GOD'S CHOOSEN said:

"Well, this is the side of your story, we haven't heard of his side of the story. There definitely no smoke without a fire 🔥. Make it make sense to us all a man who loved you and cherish you and even went ahead to come to Africa and married you, take you to his country all of the sudden Turn to hate you in a short period of time really?

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"These is definitely something wrong somewhere. you just made yourself the victim and you didn't outline any of your mistakes only his. the fact that I haven't heard his side of the story I wouldn't judge him."

Jesse Pye said:

"If you’re still in the UK and need girly support or someone to talk to drop me a message."

Mattias said:

"How could someone call themselves a man if they abuse the one they ”love”? I always fail to understand this. Being a man is about behaving and being respectful, loving and caring of the ones you love. I was hit by my ex-wife several times and not even once thought about raising my hand back. Love is always the answer. Not money, not material things, but true, genuine love is. I wish you all the best - you deserve nothing like the things you have experienced."

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UK lady's relationship with Nigerian crashes

Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a UK lady had announced the crash of her relationship with her Nigerian lover.

Announcing their break-up on TikTok via her handle, the UK lady posted a lovely clip of their sweet moments together.

The White lady apologised to netizens over the crash of their relationship and admitted that they weren't prepared. She spoke about the uncertainty of the future but had kind words for her ex-partner.

Proofreading by Kola Muhammed, copy editor at Legit.ng.

Source: Legit.ng