Lady Who Rejected Man Many Years Ago Meets Him Recently, Shares What She Discovered

Lady Who Rejected Man Many Years Ago Meets Him Recently, Shares What She Discovered

  • A Nigerian lady said that when she was in university, her parents recommended a man for her to marry
  • However, she rejected the man despite the fact that he was already a university lecturer back then
  • When she met the man, again after graduation, she said she was glad she had disobeyed her parents and refused to marry him

A Nigerian lady who rejected an arranged marriage said she was glad she never accepted it.

According to the lady who shared the story on TikTok, her parents had handpicked a man for her, but she rejected him.

Lady shares how she rejected a man recommended by her parents.
The lady said she did not regret rejecting the man. Photo credit: TikTok/@ada_daddie.
Source: TikTok

In a TikTok video, @ada_daddie said her parents made the recommendation when she was still studying at the university.

Also, the man she was supposed to marry was a university lecturer at the time, and everyone thought she would accept him.

However, she said she is glad that the marriage never happened because she would have regretted marrying the man.

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One reason she said she never married him was that the man had a small dream of moving to Enugu to work from the university.

She said they met recently, and she found out he did not even achieve that dream, as he has remained a lecturer to date.

She said she met the man in Abuja, and he asked her if she was married, and she said no.

Her words:

"My parents introduced me to one man. He was a lecturer in the university I was in. And we are from the same village and the university was in my village. Now, I rejected him. My parents thought I was insane. He thought I was insane because he was the best thing since sliced bread. I rejected him because I asked him how big his dreams were and he told me he wanted to move to Enugu to work. My dreams were more bigger than that. Guess what this man is today? He is still teaching in the same university, has four children, in that reckety car. That would have been my life."

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Lady shares experience after refusing to marry man arranged for her.
The lady said her parents had arranged the man for her. Photo credit: TikTok/@ada_daddie.
Source: TikTok

Watch the video below:

Reactions as lady shares why she rejected man

@El Roi said:

"Are you married now? If yes, congratulations. But I'm so sure you don't know where you would be in the next 5 year even if you have the biggest dreams ever known to man. Having a big dream isn't a guarantee that you would be successful in life. Life has a way of humbling us."

@Photographer in Lagos said:

"Are you from Uturu? If he lives in Okigwe, then he works in ABSU. I’m from Uturu too so girl I understand when you say he lives in Okigwe."

@Prince Okeke said:

"That’s why it’s best to be with people your dreams align with and yes be sturbborn when it comes to your goals."

Lady shares how she almost missed her husband

Earlier, Legit.ng reported that a Nigerian lady said she nearly missed marrying her husband because the man was behaving strangely when they first met.

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She narrated how her husband showed her a lot of love when they were dating and was always the first to apologise.

The lady noted that she was not used to that kind of love and kept telling the man to show his true colour.

Source: Legit.ng

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Israel Usulor (Human-Interest editor) Israel Usulor is a journalist who has 10 years of experience. He worked at The Prime Newspaper and has published articles in TheCable Newspaper. Israel graduated with distinction from Fidei Polytechnic (Mass Commun, 2016). Israel has interviewed Zannah Mustapha, the man who helped negotiate the release of Chibok Girls, and Kunle Adeyanju, who rode a bike from London to Lagos. He covered exclusive stories on Chef Dami during her Guinness World Records cookathon. Email: israel.usulor@corp.legit.ng.

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