Chivido 2025: Sophia Momodu Argues Over Marriage Advice Amid Davido, Chioma’s Wedding
- Sophia Momodu, Davido's first baby mama, has gotten into a spat online while the musician gets married in Miami
- It all started after the mum of one shared a post about dating amid Davido and Chioma’s white wedding ceremony
- Sophia reacted angrily to some comments advising her to keep a low profile and clapped back at the online critics
Sophia Momodu, Davido's first baby mama, has gotten into a spat with some trolls as the musician is getting married in the US.
The issue began when Sophia posted a video on her Snapstory of an American man discussing dating a free-spirited woman, captioned 'Surviving a free spirit'.
Source: Instagram
The clip partly read, “Messing with a free-spirited woman is not for the weak. She is free, and she has no problem showing you that she is free. My brother, that woman doesn’t belong to you.”
A Snapchat user urged the mother of one to marry and learn from Wizkid's baby mamas, who keep a low social media presence.
“Go and marry. Please learn from Wizkid’s babymamas. You hardly see them post because they respect themselves.”
Responding Sophia openly wondered how someone could observe her every move if they didn't like her.
She also urged the online user to leave women alone as she would not be swayed.
“Sarah, I hope you, your family and everyone you love go blind, cos how are you watching me when you don’t like me? Please, leave women alone. Imagine thinking you can make me feel bad cos my voice/platform is heavy. I am the prize!”
Another Snapchat user, although expressing affection for Sophia, advised her to be aware of how she responds to others in order to prevent bullies.
“I love you, Sofie, but I think they will misunderstand this pose now. Also, please be mindful of the way you reply to avoid bullies and drama.”
Sophia replied:
“Sweetie, I dgaf what a bunch of brokies who are dedicated to misunderstanding me have to say. Those who matter don’t mind. Also, y’all need to understand I’m a bigger bully. God is just working on me. And another thing, don’t ever come on my platform to tell me what I can or can’t talk about. Also, it’s Sophia to you”.
Source: Instagram
In a third post, Sophia advised individuals who dislike her and her page to check themselves into a mental institution.
She mentioned that people had been crying on her DMs all day since she did not bleach her skin.
“Honestly, if you don’t like me and you’re on any of my platforms watching every single thing I do, just go check yourself into a mental institute, cos how? They’ve been crying all over my DMs all day on I didn’t bleach my skin. Are you people even okay? Is it by force to be yellow with weird-looking knuckles?”
See her post below:
Netizens react to Sophia Momodu’s post, responses
Legit.ng compiled the reactions below:
teeh_lyfstyle said:
"But seriously the hate on Sophia is too much. What did she even do to y’all 😒."
legend.zino_ said:
"If you know how that snap quote works you will know she can easily just ignore and block."
ravissantecollections said:
"I love her confidence and the fact that she stands up to bullies."
alohanbrightz said:
"E pain sophia button."
pretty_girlie__ said:
"Yall should leave Sophia alone! If you don’t like her, how than are you watching and keeping tabs on her??"
sao28.26 said:
"They can't breath without Sophia. you all are so obsessed with her."
teiyimalenare said:
"I fit swear, nobody sent that message 😂.....even Amala was wrapped! Wrap it up sis."
9ja.gossip1 said:
"Sophia not today, we have miami wedding, Just peacefully move on."
ladyque_1 said:
"Still don't understand how some of y'all follow who you don't like... y'all should should let this lady breathe fr."
don_jagadon said:
"Sophia to Sophia...why she no post see months ago...she wan trend."
What public figures should do to trolls - Expert
Reacting, a mental health professional urged public figures to prioritise their mental health when dealing with online trolling and unsolicited advice.
Uzoamaka Nwachukwu, co-founder, Cope and Live Mental Health Awareness Foundation told Legit.ng:
"Your emotional well-being is shaped by many factors, including bullying and cyberbullying, which can take a toll on both your mental and overall health.”
"Social media, as a public arena, makes trolling and unsolicited opinions hard to escape. While you can’t control what others say, you can control how you respond. Building emotional resilience is key to protecting your peace."
She advised public figures to set clear boundaries, filter negativity, and avoid letting “noise define your worth.”
"If the pressure of online interactions feels overwhelming, it’s okay to step back. Prioritising your mental health is a powerful act of self-care," the expert added.
Sophia Momodu returns to Instagram after break
Legit.ng had earlier reported that Sophia Momodu took a break from social media a few months ago but returned in grand style three months later.
She reportedly took a break after the death of Davido's son, Ifeanyi, and circumstances of her online exit had sparked reactions from many at the time.
Sophia posted pictures on her Instagram in her return to the platform and fans gushed over her beauty. She wrote that she was living life on her terms.
Editorial assistant Ololade Olatimehin provided exclusive commentary from a mental health professional for this report.
Proofreading by Bruce Douglas, copy editor at Legit.ng.
Source: Legit.ng
Chinasa Afigbo (Entertainment Editor) Chinasa Afigbo is a pop culture/music journalist and content writer with over four years of experience in other mainstream media organisations, including Vanguard Media and Guardian Life. She holds a degree in Information Management Technology from the Federal University of Technology, Owerri (FUTO). She also moved on to pursue courses in writing & media communications. Chinasa has also been published in other Intl journals, like The African Report. Reach her at: chinasa.afigbo@corp.legit.ng.
Uzoamaka Nwachukwu (Mental Health and Trauma Recovery Specialist) Uzoamaka J. Nwachukwu is a highly trained mental health professional with expertise in grief counselling, emotional intelligence, and cognitive behavioural therapy. She holds a B.Sc. in Microbiology from Enugu State University of Science & Technology and multiple certifications in mental health, counselling, and psychology. With extensive training in trauma recovery, suicide prevention, and resilience-building, she is dedicated to supporting individuals through emotional and psychological challenges. She also holds a Diploma in Professional Counselling.
